e vill girl’s blog

Husband and I have been sick, so I don't have many sexy holiday adventures to report.  Before we got sick, though, we did have some more fun with our new guy.  I can't say we tried anything new, but it was very comfortable and fun.  We even got to meet his girlfriend, who is very sweet and pretty.  And she even wanted to hang out with us some more, but by that time one of us had a cold coming on already.  Very sucky!

Going forward, I think we need to find a girl to share.  I think I've written about this before here, but I definitely want my guy to experience the crazy fun attention that I get in our mwm threesome... hopefully will have some stories soon ;)

Hello loyal readers!  Thought I forgot about you?  I've really just been busy with school and work... I do think about you every day :)

P and I had an excellent pre-Thanksgiving experience this past wednesday night.  I guess we were feeling a little frisky, and he went ahead and posted in the mw4m section of craiglist that he wanted to share his wife with another guy.  A dozen responses later, we picked one to write back to.  And twenty minutes later we were meeting new guy at a wine bar across the street.  He was sweet, funny, normal and clean.  Might be a little younger than us... thin; nice body.  We made some small talk - somehow P's really good at making chit chat in such a potentially uncomfortable situation.  If i'm not careful I can get too nervous and shy.  anyway, we liked new guy a lot and invited him up to our apartment.

The whole experience couldn't have played out better.  New guy was sexy, considerate and fun.  And he was just adventurous enough to get the ball rolling once we were all upstairs.  I really enjoyed making out with both of these guys... getting sucked on everywhere was such a treat.  P was great and was happy just taking a moment to watch me with new guy a couple of times.  fucking a different guy was pretty crazy... but somehow kissing him was even more strange.  I really enjoyed going down on one while the other took me from behind - we did that both ways.  It was a very enjoyable time... very surreal... and it gave us something to giggle about over our thanksgiving trip out to suburbia.

So, now we think that meeting up with a stranger is easier than dealing with sex with a friend.  What do you guys think?  I guess I have to admit now that I've been holding a story back from you guys.  A few years ago P and I fooled around a couple times with a friend of ours from college.  It's kinda sad that we're not friends with him anymore; and we don't really know if crossing a physical line has anything to do with that.  I'll probably share more details on those encounters some other time... cause it was pretty hot.

The pro's to hooking up with a friend include:  You know you get along; you know what they look like; you probably have a good idea of their sexual history and health; the experience is more intimate.
The con's:  You have to explicitly ask your friend if they're into it; whereas if you're meeting up with a stranger for this particular purpose, you don't necessarily have to discuss your intent.  And more importantly, if it doesn't work out or gets strange for some reason, you risk losing a good friend.
 
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

e

...a lot more difficult than we expected.  We only met up with this couple once, for drinks, and P and I thought the lack of chemistry was pretty clear. 

Well, I haven't told you that they've been in touch since, as I wanted to respectfully give them a private dismissal.  The first time they wrote, asking to meet up the very next weekend, I stalled in replying and then said we were busy.  Lame, I know, but I thought they might get the picture.  The next time, they were checking to see if we were up for getting together again the following weekend.  I knew I had to be more blunt about being uninterested, and came up with what I thought was the perfect reply:
I told them that, to be honest, we weren't ready to meet up with them again.  We were looking forward to a quiet weekend, and will get in touch if we decide that we want to get back into it again with them.  They reply that they look forward to seeing us soon.  hmm.  I figured the relationship would end with me never getting in touch again.

So last Thursday, they write again!  Hey!  What are you up to this weekend?  I really think my previous email was clear enough, and haven't replied back.  They're nice but I just didn't feel attracted.  The chick didn't put any effort into what she was wearing, and her guy came across as way too eager.  And did I mention that she got carded at the bar and didn't have a valid ID?  Very odd, and annoying, too.

Is there a code word I can use to break this off?  Please keep in mind there's nothing actually going on to break off!  I just really don't want to say "sorry, I would have to be REALLY, REALLY schnockered to get anywhere with you guys!"

Boy... I really should be working on the homework I didn't get to this weekend.  But I wanted to share a great CL post I found last night.  Sure, I'm into trying new things with new people... but not when it comes to family planning.  I'll paste the content here, too, since these pages expire.  Yes, they posted that pic, too, and it certainly seems to clarify the intention of their post.

couple wants to chat with couple about unprotected play... - mw4mw - 38 (Midtown)

We are a married couple who have talked about playing around some, especially B. with another man while J. watches. We've talked about doing it while B. isn't using bc, unprotected. We'd love to chat some maybe on IM with another couple, or husband, or wife, who have done this before or who have thought about doing it. We aren't wanting to meet anyone yet and aren't in a rush. Write and say hi. Thanks!

Love the build-up of this Simian Mobile Disco video.  Apparently it's over a year old.  It's still hot, though.

I can't believe we actually went out and met them.  We never did that before... meeting a random couple with the hopes of hitting it off and fooling around. 

A quick, light sushi dinner was perfect for our nervous stomaches before walking up to Musical Box.  We had a drink there and waited for them.  Eventually he called, and I ran outside to get them, as the bar is unmarked.  First impression:  they're not as cute as in their picture, but I guess they're better than average.  and the guy's a little old for me.  and they're both russian.  and I just didn't find his wife attractive (tho P did, apparently).  so maybe it was the cultural difference... but we just didn't relate enough for there to be enough chemistry for our first time.  Two drinks later, they say goodnight and hope to see us next weekend.  I'm not really seeing that happening.  Disaster?  Definitely not.  It was our first time out and we learned a lot.

We learned that it must take a lot of good chemistry for 4 (generally) heterosexual couples to be all attracted to each other enough to be so intimate together.  We learned not to set our expectations too high.  And we learned that maybe there are some normal people on Craigslist.

So... you want to know why, right? 
For the pride I would feel that another cute lady would be attracted to my man.  For the excitement he would feel from watching me be with someone else.  And simply for the adventure of kissing someone new. 

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