a success story

Hello loyal readers!  Thought I forgot about you?  I've really just been busy with school and work... I do think about you every day :)

P and I had an excellent pre-Thanksgiving experience this past wednesday night.  I guess we were feeling a little frisky, and he went ahead and posted in the mw4m section of craiglist that he wanted to share his wife with another guy.  A dozen responses later, we picked one to write back to.  And twenty minutes later we were meeting new guy at a wine bar across the street.  He was sweet, funny, normal and clean.  Might be a little younger than us... thin; nice body.  We made some small talk - somehow P's really good at making chit chat in such a potentially uncomfortable situation.  If i'm not careful I can get too nervous and shy.  anyway, we liked new guy a lot and invited him up to our apartment.

The whole experience couldn't have played out better.  New guy was sexy, considerate and fun.  And he was just adventurous enough to get the ball rolling once we were all upstairs.  I really enjoyed making out with both of these guys... getting sucked on everywhere was such a treat.  P was great and was happy just taking a moment to watch me with new guy a couple of times.  fucking a different guy was pretty crazy... but somehow kissing him was even more strange.  I really enjoyed going down on one while the other took me from behind - we did that both ways.  It was a very enjoyable time... very surreal... and it gave us something to giggle about over our thanksgiving trip out to suburbia.

So, now we think that meeting up with a stranger is easier than dealing with sex with a friend.  What do you guys think?  I guess I have to admit now that I've been holding a story back from you guys.  A few years ago P and I fooled around a couple times with a friend of ours from college.  It's kinda sad that we're not friends with him anymore; and we don't really know if crossing a physical line has anything to do with that.  I'll probably share more details on those encounters some other time... cause it was pretty hot.

The pro's to hooking up with a friend include:  You know you get along; you know what they look like; you probably have a good idea of their sexual history and health; the experience is more intimate.
The con's:  You have to explicitly ask your friend if they're into it; whereas if you're meeting up with a stranger for this particular purpose, you don't necessarily have to discuss your intent.  And more importantly, if it doesn't work out or gets strange for some reason, you risk losing a good friend.
 
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

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