3 posts from October 2007

Boy... I really should be working on the homework I didn't get to this weekend.  But I wanted to share a great CL post I found last night.  Sure, I'm into trying new things with new people... but not when it comes to family planning.  I'll paste the content here, too, since these pages expire.  Yes, they posted that pic, too, and it certainly seems to clarify the intention of their post.

couple wants to chat with couple about unprotected play... - mw4mw - 38 (Midtown)

We are a married couple who have talked about playing around some, especially B. with another man while J. watches. We've talked about doing it while B. isn't using bc, unprotected. We'd love to chat some maybe on IM with another couple, or husband, or wife, who have done this before or who have thought about doing it. We aren't wanting to meet anyone yet and aren't in a rush. Write and say hi. Thanks!

Love the build-up of this Simian Mobile Disco video.  Apparently it's over a year old.  It's still hot, though.

I can't believe we actually went out and met them.  We never did that before... meeting a random couple with the hopes of hitting it off and fooling around. 

A quick, light sushi dinner was perfect for our nervous stomaches before walking up to Musical Box.  We had a drink there and waited for them.  Eventually he called, and I ran outside to get them, as the bar is unmarked.  First impression:  they're not as cute as in their picture, but I guess they're better than average.  and the guy's a little old for me.  and they're both russian.  and I just didn't find his wife attractive (tho P did, apparently).  so maybe it was the cultural difference... but we just didn't relate enough for there to be enough chemistry for our first time.  Two drinks later, they say goodnight and hope to see us next weekend.  I'm not really seeing that happening.  Disaster?  Definitely not.  It was our first time out and we learned a lot.

We learned that it must take a lot of good chemistry for 4 (generally) heterosexual couples to be all attracted to each other enough to be so intimate together.  We learned not to set our expectations too high.  And we learned that maybe there are some normal people on Craigslist.

So... you want to know why, right? 
For the pride I would feel that another cute lady would be attracted to my man.  For the excitement he would feel from watching me be with someone else.  And simply for the adventure of kissing someone new. 

Welcome.