2 posts from November 2007

Hello loyal readers!  Thought I forgot about you?  I've really just been busy with school and work... I do think about you every day :)

P and I had an excellent pre-Thanksgiving experience this past wednesday night.  I guess we were feeling a little frisky, and he went ahead and posted in the mw4m section of craiglist that he wanted to share his wife with another guy.  A dozen responses later, we picked one to write back to.  And twenty minutes later we were meeting new guy at a wine bar across the street.  He was sweet, funny, normal and clean.  Might be a little younger than us... thin; nice body.  We made some small talk - somehow P's really good at making chit chat in such a potentially uncomfortable situation.  If i'm not careful I can get too nervous and shy.  anyway, we liked new guy a lot and invited him up to our apartment.

The whole experience couldn't have played out better.  New guy was sexy, considerate and fun.  And he was just adventurous enough to get the ball rolling once we were all upstairs.  I really enjoyed making out with both of these guys... getting sucked on everywhere was such a treat.  P was great and was happy just taking a moment to watch me with new guy a couple of times.  fucking a different guy was pretty crazy... but somehow kissing him was even more strange.  I really enjoyed going down on one while the other took me from behind - we did that both ways.  It was a very enjoyable time... very surreal... and it gave us something to giggle about over our thanksgiving trip out to suburbia.

So, now we think that meeting up with a stranger is easier than dealing with sex with a friend.  What do you guys think?  I guess I have to admit now that I've been holding a story back from you guys.  A few years ago P and I fooled around a couple times with a friend of ours from college.  It's kinda sad that we're not friends with him anymore; and we don't really know if crossing a physical line has anything to do with that.  I'll probably share more details on those encounters some other time... cause it was pretty hot.

The pro's to hooking up with a friend include:  You know you get along; you know what they look like; you probably have a good idea of their sexual history and health; the experience is more intimate.
The con's:  You have to explicitly ask your friend if they're into it; whereas if you're meeting up with a stranger for this particular purpose, you don't necessarily have to discuss your intent.  And more importantly, if it doesn't work out or gets strange for some reason, you risk losing a good friend.
 
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

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...a lot more difficult than we expected.  We only met up with this couple once, for drinks, and P and I thought the lack of chemistry was pretty clear. 

Well, I haven't told you that they've been in touch since, as I wanted to respectfully give them a private dismissal.  The first time they wrote, asking to meet up the very next weekend, I stalled in replying and then said we were busy.  Lame, I know, but I thought they might get the picture.  The next time, they were checking to see if we were up for getting together again the following weekend.  I knew I had to be more blunt about being uninterested, and came up with what I thought was the perfect reply:
I told them that, to be honest, we weren't ready to meet up with them again.  We were looking forward to a quiet weekend, and will get in touch if we decide that we want to get back into it again with them.  They reply that they look forward to seeing us soon.  hmm.  I figured the relationship would end with me never getting in touch again.

So last Thursday, they write again!  Hey!  What are you up to this weekend?  I really think my previous email was clear enough, and haven't replied back.  They're nice but I just didn't feel attracted.  The chick didn't put any effort into what she was wearing, and her guy came across as way too eager.  And did I mention that she got carded at the bar and didn't have a valid ID?  Very odd, and annoying, too.

Is there a code word I can use to break this off?  Please keep in mind there's nothing actually going on to break off!  I just really don't want to say "sorry, I would have to be REALLY, REALLY schnockered to get anywhere with you guys!"